Trauma, Vows and Consequences
There is something deeply human, almost haunting, about the story of Jephthah in Judges chapters 10 and 11. It is not merely a story of war and victory; it is a story of wounds- old, buried, unspoken...
Dr. A.Y. Soje
Aug 8, 2026 · 5 min read
Trauma, Vows and Consequences
There is something deeply human, almost haunting, about the story of Jephthah in Judges chapters 10 and 11. It is not me...
Buried Treasure Within
"He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart..." — Ecclesiastes 3:11 (NIV)...
I'M FINE....ARE YOU?
She smiled through the meeting.She responded to every WhatsApp message with the appropriate emoji. She remembered everyo...
Mothers...I see you...
The forces at play in motherhood are far more complex than the world often acknowledges.Motherhood is not merely about c...
Ladies; Be soft but territorial
As a woman. As a human being. Be soft, but be firmly territorial.Being territorial is not the same as being proud. It is...
Healing Has a Price. Trauma Has a Bigger One
We often talk about the cost of therapy, counseling, rehabilitation, or taking time away to heal. But the truth is, heal...
DON'T LOOSE HOPE
Some experiences will happen that leave us doubting our ability to cope, to survive, to get out of a tight corner. There...
LET’S FACE IT, STOP ESCAPING
To the one who is tired of hiding behind the next drink, the next puff, the next click, the next high...I want you to kn...
DEAR TRAUMA SURVIVOR, THERE IS MORE.
Dear trauma survivor, I know the pain, the fear, the anger and the sorrow. I know what it feels like to wake up with a b...